Are College friends ...friends?

This could be one of the sickest topics to a college student, for a person who finished college this topic may raise his eyebrows and this will be a very interesting topic for a man who finished college years ago.

Never have I wanted to say my autograph (!) story but just to bring some relevance to the ones who do not know me, I joined in a college 10 years ago. But like anyone it is so afresh in my mind. After 14 years studying in a boys school (Vanavasam), I entered the classroom where there were 48 girls and 18 boys. Rest history speaks.

Day by day we meet people and they become friends after we meet them once. Is there any possibility for that to happen in the working environment?....gosh never I can bear my colleagues for more than 10 mins as far as personal talks.

As fun and frolic increases the network increases, increases and it increases. But there will be a D day for it to disappear. The emotional farewell day. What happens then? 100’s of your friends whom you met will go away from u in 100 different routes. How many group email id’s after college has been successful. How many actually think of college days when they hear Mustafa, Mustafa song?

So what is the best way to keep up the relationship after college? At least with your close friends. Few tips

No to ego. Ego is an ingredient which automatically gets into you when you fall into the working atmosphere. So atleast with your close friends never compare your career, salary, achievements etc.

Always dutch the bill. Money is the poison for any relationship.

Remember his birthday. Everyone feels good if they are remembered and wished on their birthday. You calling and wishing your old friend will renew the relationship by one year…of course renew again next year.

No suggestions please! If you go to a temple and tell god about your problems you don’t get any suggestions but u come out of the temple with a solution. Adopt the same strategy. Whenever a friend comes to you for a suggestion, don’t give him a suggestion rather make him think for the right solution. If you give suggestions you obviously land up in sharing your achievements and he has to have a session with you until your ego drains.

No sarcastic jokes. These jokes may be funny once but if repeated you will loose a count in your friends list.

Plan a bachelor tour. Atleast once in a year plan for bachelor tour it will definitely bring back your college days.

Feel proud of your friendship. Yes you have to be proud if the relationship is maintained for years

Help your friend before he asks. Remember a friend in need is a friend indeed

Ok Friends my blog should not be shaping analysing relationship. It should also bring some entertainment for you and me.

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